Thursday, July 23, 2020

Live the life

Well, we all keep lamenting that we have a hectic life with work schedules, family to care of  and chores to attend to and fail to realise we have to embrace precious moments in this one time living. Some people are brave enough to choose the path less traveled and live to the fullest but for others this writing would help you find a way out and pause the life and get up to an exciting one. 
Start by creating a bucket list. Those moments you missed out or wished you could relive. Jot it down. And start checking things off,experience as much of this world as you can. 
Live for others. We are social beings who be social for their own existence. Be compassionate to others. Pet your animal. Take care of your children and support your elderly. Sharing love for others is learning. 
In this social media orientated generation all approvals from social media via likes shares are the only emotions people have. They are incapable to deal with the real life instances and fail to act humanistic in situations where they have to. 
Don't live by expectations of others. Every one is unique. You don't have to set back your progress of life for the societal acceptance. Take your life decisions boldly and when you are ready for it. 
Don't be jealous. Jealousy is a destructive emotion. Be a positive person. There is always a negative outcome for your negative thoughts. 
Overcome fear. Fear is the most devastating situation one come across. Conquering fear and been brave enough is one skill one should prioritize. 
Don't gossip. Each gossip will boomerang on us overtime. 
Change things. You see things turning turmoil show leadership and cause a change, improve the plight, stand up for it. 
Take care of body and mind. Overcome laziness, busy yourself with activities that can enrich your mind and body. Constantly work on improving yourself. Find time for things that make you happy. Put on a smile everyday. Block out haters and accept only constructive criticism. 
Life is too short, blend in and cherish it.

Tuesday, June 23, 2020

Corona and mental impacts

 Corona pandemic has been a tough time for many of us. Little did we know when whole country geared for hopeful new year and Chinese new year was called off with no celebration that this was parched to a bonfire. It is important to watch out for the cues and extend help to dear ones for which I decide to write on it.
Stress- with the risk of unemployment, layoffs and the needy was slashed to poverty. The daily wage workers has no food to feed their children. The businesses were back lashed.The debts and loans made people liable to mental pain.
Depression- the isolation has driven escalating nervousness among people. Well we can recall lockdown days crying with mood swings. Learn new simple daily physical exercises to perform at home which will help to keep active and reduce boredom. Avoid using unhelpful coping strategies such as tobacco, alcohol or other drugs. These can worsen mental and physical well being.
Fear of being diseased- this is one kind of factor prevalent in regions under most Corona cases and deaths. Protect yourself and be supportive to others. Adopt health and sanitizing practices. Take care of health and immunity.
Fear is normal reaction in situation of uncertainty. Don't let this fear be expressed in ways which are hurtful to others. 

Tuesday, April 14, 2020

Corona checklist ✔

          Corona checklist 


Light a candle √
Put on a face mask√
Spend time with nature√
Take a cat nap √
Watch funny youtube clip √
Do short meditation√
Organise wardrobe√
Paint a picture√
Cook a new meal√
Watch lot of movies√
Enlarging bucket list√



Tuesday, March 17, 2020

Woshy mushy rains

 Didn't we all have a childhood drenching in the pitter patter raindrops in the thor of thunders. Rains have form a inseparable good vibes in all of our lives.Rains brings out the tropical beauty of our country. Farmers subsist on good rains for good cropping.  
It was not always the good phase of rains we had.The continuous, unpredictable  downpours  made us all liable  to girth of pains.Dam shutters thrashed with gallons of water. The oceanic fauna lost its home  gulping and capsizing manmade structure.The dislocated were enamoured of relief camps  and social help. Others ignorant of their plight connives at mushy floods. 

Amigo

The wind that gushed in
Disturbing the blinds
Left me reminiscent
Taking me back to those days
Which I wished persisted

I was cold and still
Not knowing what was happening around
In numb silence
The world around me was happening I was paused

To the friend that left me
I always wished u stayed for me
U were my world ,my everything
U made my days magical
U guided me as guardian angel
As friendship we have is rare to find
I embraced u
U were the best kind of people kind and warm
one who was always there and didn't mind
One who support with strength and grace

I wrath the world that separated us
But u have a space in my heart forever


Monday, July 1, 2019

                                                              VACAY


                        Where would you couchsurf for a perfect vacay????Well there is a endless list of places one could go.Popularly European vacations,beach vacations,family friendly vacation,escorted and guided tours,vacations in Asia,USA,LA,South America,middle east and Africa,Carribibean,Ireland,Italy,Australia,UK,Mexico,Hawii,island vacations,luxury vacation,romantic vacations...nd mre... Trotters who find a reason to travel are my kind of ppl


                          What is more meserizing and joyful than living a day far far away in silhouette and making a book full of memories and adventures away from the stressful workaholic lamenting day todays.The vacations may be an escapism or a best day ,or day living ones dream ,..wat so it is a much needed pill.
                       
                         
                  Road trips remain a favs.i was on such a road trip lately to Nainital.The Lake City, Nainital is situated in lap of Uttarakhand and it vies with several hilly destinations to secure a place in the list of top 10 hill stations in India. A quiet little valley at an elevation of about 2084m with a centrally located lake, it is also one of the most visited hill stations in North India. tourists come to Nainital to regain the lost peace of mind and the benevolent city never ever fails to provide just that. Naukuchiatal (Lake with 9 corners), Bhimtal (with the small island in the middle of the lake) and Sattal (there are 7 lakes in this area), Khurpatal (the hoof-shaped lake) are must see places in Nainital. Each lake is situated at a short distance from each other, thus it merely takes half a day to see all of these. 

Snow-View
We took  ropeway to reach one of the most popular tourist attractions in Nainital called Snow View. The place is sort of miniature fun park, which is absolutely perfect for some family enjoyment. on a clear sky day you shall be able to see the part of farfetched snow-clad Himalayan mountain range. The view is simply outstanding and the experience can be exhilarating.
One will like visiting EcoCave Garden in Nainital for small time adventure and fun. It is a group of interconnected natural caves, which can be crawled .
Boating is definitely a must thing to do in Nainital. boating in Nainital is one of the best experiences that one gets in this gorgeous city. You can choose rowing boats or the paddle boats here and sail for at least an hour amidst serene beauty.
 One of the oldest national parks in India, Corbett is one place that you will never forget. The park is situated about 65 kms from Nainital and thus is one of the best places to see near the city. Sprawling across a large area, Corbett National Park is the home to many species of animals and birds. Other than spotting wildlife, staying in Dhikala Lodge. that is built inside the park and taking safaris on jeep, canter and elephant adds to the excitement and adventure here
To end the day here is nothing better than sitting beside the lake in Nainital. As the evening closes in, this particular side placed on one end of the Flatts is thronged by number of tourists and locals. The view is magical with the lights of the hotels reflecting on the lake water, the dark mountains and gradually dimming sky. The cool breeze against your hair, the smell of coffee dominating all other fragrances, the cozy environment and the tranquility





Hopeful that  this blog gave u much needed inspiration to plan  your next trip....